Look at the real nature of the harm that is done to you.
It is as elusive as a drawing on water.
Let your resentment subside by itself.
When the stormy waves of thoughts have vanished, the mind becomes like the
cloudless sky that has nothing to win or lose.
~ Shechen Gyaltsap
theg pa chen po'i blo sbyong gi man ngag zab don sbrang rtsi'i bum bzang, pp. 441-444.
SHECHEN GYALTSAP (1871-1926)